I've been with a guy for five years. He has an ex wife and in the past year I found out that he has been sleeping with her as well. We lived together for four of these years until I found this out. I moved out and was heart broken. When I confronted him he said she was lying and he never slept with her. He text and rang me and I let him back in to my life and this past month I feel that he has just been using me. He tells me he loves me and wants me back yet then il not hear from him for days and then hel be all I'm sorry my heads up my bum and I don't mean to hurt you etc etc and I keep letting him do it. I feel so depressed and upset I cry every night can't sleep. I feel so alone I can't tell my parents about it as they hate him for what he has put me through so I don't want them to know I've been back with him for months.

U need to dump him...
He is selfish, heartless and cruel.

Sorry, but it needs to be said...
HE IS A RAT BASTARD, and you deserve better.

I don't know how to, I feel tied to him, I'm not that strong I wish I could I know I should

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Originally Posted by megan79

i dont know how to, i feel tied to him, im not that strong i wish i could i know i should

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Oh hell no...
A woman shouldn't and cannot be bound by a man, or his case a rat bastard. He is wrong for you and that alone will make it easy to dump him. Behind every good man is a good woman... this joker will be alone for the rest of his days if he doesn't change.

Tell him how you feel and that it's not working and you can't see him anymore. I will be easier if at least at first you don't talk to him. You may never be able to friends but at least you won't be trapped in an unhealthy relationship anymore.

I have spoke to him sooooooooo many times about this and even cried down the phone with him that I feel used and that I feel unwanted he is all I do want you I love you and now I'm sitting here not having heard from him since wed and when I text are ring his mobile he won't ans

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Originally Posted by megan79

i have spoke to him sooooooooo many times about this and even cried down the phone with him that i feel used and that i feel unwanted he is all i do want u i love u and now im sitting here not having heard from him since wed and when i txt r ring his mobile he wont ans

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Heartless and cruel w/ selfishness to boot...

Girl leave him.

How on earth do you work this site haha, I hear what your saying thou it is soooooooo hard to actually come to terms with it I know what I have to do but he always seems to crawl his way back in

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Originally Posted by megan79

how on earth do u work this site haha, i hear what your saying thou it is soooooooo hard to actually come to terms with it i know what i have to do but he always seems to crawl his way back in

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Next time he tries to crawl back in just think about the other girl/ex he has been making whooppeee with while he was with you.

I agree. You need to get out of this relationship. It will hurt and it will be hard at first but I promise you it will be worth it. Don't talk to him at all. Then he won't be able to sneak his way back into your heart. You need to take care of you.

Thanks guys I know I should do that. Though I have no one else . I'm crying here. I'm away on to upset. Thanks guys