Hello.

Is there a simple, definitive how to guide for executors in the state of NC?

Blair

That's executing a will... lol

Is this in the wrong section?

No it's the correct section but there is no.. Executors for dummies book. You need to read up on the laws of the state its in or hire a competent lawyer. For the most part its just a legal position to ensure that someone is responsible for care and distribution of funds.