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  • May 15, 2009, 08:39 AM
    Meatbag
    She's made a mess out of me
    I can't get over her. She haunts my memory more than ever now. To get you up to speed I wrote "need some serious move onage" and a day after I wrote that she came into my work with makeup on looking all pretty (she was about to go hunting so I don't understand why she got all gussied up) to talk to me, which is something she's never done even when we were together. And we had a good half hour conversation with some mild flirting (she has kind of a flirty personality) and we basically caught up a bit with each other. She told me about this cell phone prank her friend sent her which was something about "somebody likes you call this # to find out" and then you call it and it directs you to a gay phone line. She went on to say how she sent it to all her friends. She paused and said "except to you, I didn't want you to take it the wrong way". Then that following Saturday I sent her an e-mail thanking her for coming in and I told her how it cheered me up. She didn't reply to it. I asked her if she was busy (cause its her last month of high school, she's a senior)and she replied "kinda sorta, it depends on what day it is." After that we just stopped talking again for three weeks and I was a little hurt. She texted me again out of nowhere the other night and called me a "loser" something of a pet name she had for me when we were together and I wasn't about to be all forgiving and be all friendly with her. But eventually I was. I asked her how things with this I guy I last new she was dating. A guy that's too old for her and she told me he wanted way too much from her. She told me there were other reasons she wasn't dating him anymore but I didn't get into those. So I asked her about her prom and she got all excited and told me how great it was. She went with her friends to prom. She then asked me if she could send me a few pictures of her from prom. I told her sure. I told her she was stunning and she got all happy about that and we kind of flirted via text a little bit. I told her I'd text her the next night, which I did but it took a while going through and about an hour later she texted me "Damnit I thought you were gonna text me today! lol jk" so we texted for a while and she seemed kind of preoccupied and a little down and I vowed to cheer her up. She told me she was busy with an essay and how much it sucked. By the end of the night I had her laughing again which made me happy... so what do you think? Do you think that maybe she still has feelings for me? What should I do? :confused:
  • May 15, 2009, 09:00 AM
    worried123

    Sorry to say this but it sounds like she just wants you guys to be friends. You are probably someone she can talk to when she needs cheering up or have no one else to talk to. It also looks like she went on with life and you should do the same. It's always hard trying to get over someone you love but keep trying. It's also better being friends than having nothing at all.
  • May 15, 2009, 08:41 PM
    Meatbag

    Really? Even amidst all the flirting? I mean she told me she broke things off with the guy she was dating a week after she found out I broke things off with my then girlfriend... She told me she had been trying to get ahold of me too. She can never seem to make up her mind. Dig up my old thread and read it. When we make eye contact and I still see something in her eyes.

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