I have been married for 7 years. In those years my husband has cheated on me a few times I have forgave him for the sake of our children. I have fallen in love with a co worker. He is also married and very faithful to his wife though I feel the chemistry between us. He flirts with me but that's as far as he gets. All I want to do is kiss him . I have this passion for him I can't control what should I do ? This man is driving me insane.

If you are not happy in your marriage then deal with that as it's own issue. Do not use it as an excuse to ruin someone else's marriage. Knowing how it feels to have a cheating husband, why would you want to inflict that pain on another woman?

If you have feelings for this man, you need to do everything you can to distance yourself from him. Only interact with him when necessary and keep all conversation work related. Hopefully less time with him will allow you to get over him.

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Originally Posted by jjwoodhull

If you are not happy in your marriage then deal with that as it's own issue. Do not use it as an excuse to ruin someone else's marriage. Knowing how it feels to have a cheating husband, why would you want to inflict that pain on another woman?

If you have feelings for this man, you need to do everything you can to distance yourself from him. Only interact with him when necessary and keep all conversation work related. Hopefully less time with him will allow you to get over him.

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Thank you for your answer and yes I have thought about how I wouldn't want someone else to feel the pain I felt. What you said is very true and Ialready knew this I just needed to hear from someone else thanks and I will follow your advice.

It's not the man that's driving you insane, it's your response to him - because you're lonely and unhappy.

You will make your life one hundred times worse if you go down this path. Imagine how you will feel being cheated on and being a cheater as well. Pretty awful, I would imagine.

Deal with your problems at home, try and work on your marriage and leave other people's marriages alone.