My boyfriend of 5 years is very distant lately... we do not have much of a sex life lately... only once about every 4 mnths or so... the other night he just laid there? He says nothings wrong? I don't believe because we used to have a GREAT sex life now nothing and he's satisfied with it? HELP:confused:

Talk to him about it. After 5 years, you guys must have a communication system in place. If he can't answer the tough questions, then you have a bigger problem than no sex.

Just talk to him about it.

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He might be going through depression.

Something's wrong. It's not about the sex. Talk to him - but not when you're in bed.