Hey there is this girl that I really want to go out with and last time I asked her out she said no its been months & it has been hard to forget about her as she has been free for so long and she is not one of those bad girls she's smart and nice what should I do?:confused::confused::(:confused::confused:

You have asked her out and she turned you down.

Do you have reason to believe she is now interested?

Personally, I think the ball is in her court if she would like to date you.

If she doesn't feel the same way about, you can't force her to date you. You can try again, but just be prepared for another rejection.

Thanks 4 the advice but do you guys think if I get my act together and change to be a better person maybe it will work

What makes you a bad person?

Why would she think you are a bad person?

What do you have to do to get your act together?

Getting your act together is a time - consuming process. Maybe you should just work on that first.

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Originally Posted by vipalexander2

thanx 4 the advice but do you guys think if i get my act together and change to be a better person maybe it will work

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This kind of stuff doesn't happen overnight. Do you even know what you need to change? Does changing your act mean that you're not going to be yourself anymore?

The fact that you feel like you need to change so many things means that he doesn't like you for who you are.

Justwantfair I think the problem is that I was rushing, you see as in when we were friends (we are still friends) I one time asked her out on a date and she agreed so I waited for the coming day and once the day came when I was ready she called me to say that she was bissy you I know that everybodys bissy and agreed we still continued talk until we lost cominication and my friend who is her close friend told me its over(she deosn't like me)

Just give it time, be friends again first.

You can work on you while you build the friendship again.

Instead of asking her out on a date so directly, how about you find opportunities to talk to her more in school so that she can get more comfortable with you before going out on a date alone.

And also like a few s back I wasn't quite myself I tried act as if I was ("cool") but the only thing it got me was in trouble and from then on I've decided to change (be myself) I just hope that what I am is good and not bad

Well good luck to you.

Being true to yourself and your morals is very important and a commendable quality.

It will also help her so that she knows who you are and who you want to be.

You are on a good path, just keep plugging along, things work out the way they are supposed to, not always the way you want. ;)

Your day to shine will come.