Now She wants a child, but I don't
Here's the deal.
We've been married for a year. We had already agreed on not having children not for another 2 years.
Here cousin gave a birth to a baby girl, and now she wants one.
Not only she but even my parent saying they want to see their grandchild.
With the salary I have and the loan I'm repaying and basic bills (phone & electricity), I don't have enough money to take care of a child.
We fought over the phone last night (because I'm working away) and she still insist of having a child.
Another thing that stopping me of having a kid (and you're the only guys I'm telling) is: I don't have a car and I've never bought a car (I'm driving my father car) so I want to buy my first brand new one. The car I want is between $45-50,000 and I could make up this amount if I worked overtime and planned the child's birth on Jan 2011.
Please help me on how to convince her or me!!