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  • May 12, 2009, 02:35 PM
    darkangel276
    I like a girl but I don't know if she likes me back
    So I like this girl,she's really cute funny and she brighten up the whole room. I'm the type of guy who sit in the corner alone ,but about a month ago in science I was moved next to her and when I'm sat next to her I just get the urge to kiss her (havent yet T-T) and I want to ask her but if I do and she rejects me people would gossip and it travels fast in my school. Im already an outsider I don't want to be worse but were having exams and m parents will make me cram (they think I'm an angel... so wrong) so I won't have time to tell her outside of school but she's always in a group and I get so nervous... HELP!!
  • May 12, 2009, 04:16 PM
    I wish

    You don't need to ask her out so fast. Now that you sit next to her, talk to her more to get to know her more first. Let her get to know you more first too.

    The rest will come naturally.
  • May 13, 2009, 12:01 AM
    Clough

    Hi, darkangel276!

    Why are you the type of guy who sits in the corner alone, please?

    Thanks!
  • May 13, 2009, 12:16 AM
    darkangel276

    A result of bad things happening all at once and the fact I'm kind of shy around people
  • May 13, 2009, 12:19 AM
    Clough

    Do you want to remain a type of person who tends to be an outsider?

    Thanks!
  • May 13, 2009, 12:30 AM
    darkangel276

    In someways yes in some no I mean as an outsider no one pressuring me but then again I miss talking to people a lot
  • May 13, 2009, 12:31 AM
    Clough

    Do you feel as though you have low self-confidence in yourself?

    Thanks!
  • May 13, 2009, 12:32 AM
    darkangel276

    Yes
  • May 13, 2009, 12:34 AM
    Clough

    I have an activity that I like to do with people on this site to help them to feel better about themselves and also give them a sense of really accomplishing something.

    Are you interested in trying something with me that might help you in your life?

    Thanks!
  • May 13, 2009, 12:43 AM
    Clough

    Are you still there, darkangel276?
  • May 13, 2009, 07:34 AM
    darkangel276

    Sorry had to go back now and yes depends though
  • May 13, 2009, 08:11 AM
    oscarlicous

    I am shy around people and I'm kind of the corner person too. But do you have friends in that class? And how do you know what her personablity is? If you just go do a little bit at a time like talking to her, then maybe she'll find out things about you will out things about her. Maybe you won't like her personality... I'm not very good at these things but I'll try helping with your problem :)
  • May 13, 2009, 08:55 AM
    talaniman
    Nothing wrong with being shy, but slowdown, and just be friendly, and see how she is.

    This will give you a chance to get to know her, and maybe get over your shyness, without the pressure of being rejected.

    Start with saying HI, or good morning.
  • May 13, 2009, 02:21 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by darkangel276 View Post
    sorry had to go back now and yes depends though

    I'm sorry, but I got disconnected from the Internet last night and couldn't get back on. Hopefully, we can discuss this later tonight.

    Thanks!
  • Jul 15, 2009, 03:32 PM
    darkangel276
    Omg omg omg omg help the proms in to days and I still don't know how to ask her out and I don't know if she's in the same section next year so I may not be able to see her again help!!
  • Jul 15, 2009, 05:58 PM
    talaniman

    "Like to go to the prom with me?"
  • Jul 15, 2009, 07:26 PM
    Clough

    talaniman is correct, darkangel276! It's as simple as just asking her the question. I would like to also add that a person can't win the game if they don't play the game. Also, a person can't learn how to swim unless they get into the water.

    Please just take a chance and ask her!

    Thanks!
  • Jul 16, 2009, 03:51 AM
    JBOY345
    Look I'm Not saying this to be mean but,you need to man up a little but don't take it fast have confidence in yourself girls love that if they know your on there level then it all Falls together

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