He's not happy at all as what he said.
... last time I ask my boyfriend and we finished our contract we went home in our respective courty I'm in philippines and he's in india,, after 2 days being away from each for almost 2 years relationship he schocked me that he's going to get married and everything were settle for not being 1 week away from each other, I feel a big rejection and betrayal for that.. im trying to move on now because I know he made his choice to marry somebody that I know he'll be happy maybe... but now after 12 days of marriage he mailed me saying he's not happy at all and he's regreting for deciding too fast for marriage... now he's telling me that he's not happy as he was happy w/ me, and I'm the one he's thinking when he's making love to his wife... hes asking forgivenesss for everything he did and telling he's not happy at all... now I'm confuse I feel he's lying or making story because maybe soon will be working in the same ship we might see each other and he'll use me to be his partner for just a contract affair.. I can't trust him at all but still I feel love for him... but do you all think he's telling the truth that he's not happy at all?
Our culture differences and choice of his parents
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But his marriage was chosen by his parents as it is his culture of marriage is fixed according to matchmaking... I told him before the marriage when I'm trying to stop everything how he can say yes for that marriage when we both know that we love each other... he said its not on his at all to take it back he said I didn't ask anything before about both of us to settle ,of course on my side I'm still a woman and I'm still waiting for him to propose to me but still till we end the contract he didn't say anything at all... now he's telling he seen his parents and family were happy for finding the girl for him he made the choice to have the girl to marry not being w/ that girl for long when he met only the girl when they settle the date to get marry and the day of the marriage ,he choose this girl to marry because of his family choice and hapiness, in away I understand him that he can't choose me because of big differences.. he also told me before marriage in their country life and culture is different that he thought I can't survive... he might hurting also for what happen to him w/ his culture he needs to obey his parents or he'll be curse and I cannot be accepted by his family as I'm different from him... I don't know if he's really telling the truth that he's not happy and regreting for deciding to fast to marry... do you all think that he really love his wife now?/does he enjoing making love w/ the wife when he told me when he's making love w/ the wife I'm the one he's thinking... he want to see me and hug me and he even want to ask for forgiveness for he did when he said he know for himself that he didn't betray me at all... should I believe w/ him? Am I still that he love even he's start making love w/ other woman w/c is his wife... what should I do to make understand everything??
