I was adopted in November 15 1989 in benton Ar

I'm sorry if I hurt someone for I do not mean to

The fact that you were adopted suggests that your biological parents are not in a condition to meet u.Though I'm as inexperienced as you are, I would suggest you not to waste the prime years o your life . U can go finding them once you are well settled
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P.S. SORRY IF I UNINTINTIONALLY HURT SOMEONE

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Originally Posted by Sahi444

I'm sorry if I hurt someone for i do not mean to

The fact that u were adopted suggests that ur biological parents are not in a condition to meet u.Though I'm as inexperienced as u are, i wud suggest u not to waste the prime years o ur life . U can go finding them once u r well settled
:) :) :) :) :) :)
P.S. SORRY IF I UNINTINTIONALLY HURT SOMEONE

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You have no idea what you're talking about. MANY biological parents are in a different place when their child is born than they are 18 years later when that child is an adult.

Again, one of the many misconceptions about adoption.

To the OP:

What have you asked your adoptive parents? Do they have names, agencies used, ANY more information to give you? Hospital you were born in, anything?

Start with that, then go to the courthouse in the county you were born/adopted in, and the adoption agency, and leave letters with your contact information, so that if your biological parents are looking for YOU, they have a place to start. You may find that biological parents have already left letters for you in those places.

Register at reunion websites like adoption.com, adoption.org and ISSR.

If you have more information than your adoption date, you can look into hiring a private detective, but that could get pretty spendy.

I totally undestand how you feel
I was also adopted
But just live your life try not thinking about what your life would been have like with your real parents
But I really understand and I sometimes also think of what my life would have been like

First to 1/2 of the posters we do not do "chat" trying here, Please spell your words out, it is in the rules.

Next you are a minor and as such we can not really help you. Have you talked to your mom and dad about wanting to search for the birth parents

Ooops, sorry Chuck.

I'm usually good about watching the dates, too!