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  • May 11, 2009, 04:16 PM
    franneh
    Ok this really freaked me out.
    Okay I am so super embarrassed by this that I almost didn't want to post, but I am so freaked out by it that I am hoping someone else has experienced it too! Please don't laugh at me if its something normal, I have never had this happen before.

    I am 25 and have been with my husband for almost 8 years (married almost 3 years).

    I don't know if this part is relevant, but just in case: My husband and I were on the sofa last night and he was being silly and started rubbing my nipples through my shirt, and when he realized I was really enjoying it, he became serious and kept doing it, and he did that for so long that I actually had a small, but amazing, orgasm just from that! (I never knew it was possible to climax without even being touched "down there"! ) Then we were both super ready to go, so we decided to run to the bedroom...

    Well we were both really ready then and so we were doing it really fast/rough and suddenly just as I was starting to climax, I felt a sudden burst of warm liquid come out of ME, like I peed all over myself, but I did NOT pee. The bed and myself were soaking wet, it was like water. My husband stopped long enough to ask if I was okay, but being caught up in the moment, we just kept on going. (And it was amazing!) Then after we finished, I investigated. It was so weird, like a huge puddle of water on the sheet! Its clear, and has NO smell whatsoever! My hubby says its normal, but I don't know; we've been having great sex for almost 8 years now, and I've never had this happen.

    I'm really embarrassed and freaked out. I mean of course normally I get really wet and have white discharge during intercourse, but this has me all freaked out. (It felt really amazing though.)

    I felt so silly/mortified but at the same time I felt really great because it was such an intensely good orgasm.

    Did it happen because I was already so super-stimulated before we started? Should I be worried? Has this happened to anyone else? What is it?

    *hides in shame and humiliation*
  • May 11, 2009, 04:50 PM
    bladerecon

    Yes, you were really excited and you climaxed early. Its normal, don't be embarrassed, just continue to have great sex. What you did was you probably squirted, your boyfriend is lucky to have a girlfriend that can do that.
  • May 11, 2009, 05:20 PM
    Flesh

    The nipples realease a hormone that makes it easier for females to orgasm... for real I do not know what it is called but tweaking them (rubbing/pinching) stimulates and releases something again I forget but you can check it out, also you had a real orgasm I guess? I know that my gfs have gotten so wet that my whole stomach, and theigh area would be soaked, and their would be a lot of it everywhere sometimes, some people say its squirting without the shot, others just call it a real orgasm... I call it awesome.
  • May 11, 2009, 06:39 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    So you enjoyed and had great sex with your husband, Why any reason to be embarrassed
  • May 11, 2009, 06:49 PM
    JoeCanada76

    There is no reason to feel embarrassed. You were both super excited. I would say you had a women ejaculation. You know what. You should be amazed and relieved that you had this experience. Take it for what it was, an amazing experience.
    Awesome. Your husband is right. It is normal.

    Joe
  • May 11, 2009, 06:54 PM
    liz28

    This have happen to me in the past with my fiancé. Nothing to be ashamed about.
  • May 11, 2009, 08:12 PM
    Gemini54
    This happens to me as well. It's actually a female ejaculation. When highly aroused and during orgasm women can 'ejaculate' a clear, non smelly fluid. Some say that it comes from the G spot. Have a look on the internet, there is heaps of material on it.
  • May 11, 2009, 08:30 PM
    franneh
    Thank you all so much for your replies! That made me feel better! So much better in fact, that I decided to try a replay of last night, we did everything the same, started with the foreplay on the couch and moved into the bedroom, and used the same awesome position and guess what! It happened again! Haha! I think we're onto something here! And I can't wait to expiriment even more! I know he's happy! Lol!

    *is a very happy girl*
  • May 11, 2009, 08:34 PM
    Alty

    Totally normal, not usual though, you're a lucky girl.

    Here's a link I find on the internet, it may help explain things better.

    Warning, there is a video clip with content not suitable for children (anyone under 18) watch at your own risk. ;)

    How To Female Ejaculate - Babeland
  • May 12, 2009, 07:42 AM
    smoothy

    Not many get to experience that... but like you said... you know when its pee for the odor.

    Don';t be embarrassed any more than you might be if you let out a little toot when you climax.
  • May 15, 2009, 08:58 AM
    Clarizzy

    You were really turned on. That's really nice.
  • May 25, 2009, 03:55 AM
    Meow420

    That happened to me too! I nearly dies of embarrassment! But then when I saw the excited look in my mans eyes, I knew we had found a new cool thing to introduce into our sex lives.. he can now make me squirt when ever he wants, its like a have no control lol.. with his penis, tongue, fingers omg I've never done so much laundry before hahahah!
  • Jun 26, 2009, 09:28 PM
    ohsohappy

    This just started happening to me too! I wasn't sure what it was but know I'm positive! Awesome. :)

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