I feel like the man in the relationship
Really, I need help ASAP!
I have this new boyfriend, he is one of those guys who will never initiate anything(apart from sex of course) and even that, he uses his hands more to suggest it than his mouth. He never surprises me with anything. For 2 years, my birthday has passed and he says,"dont worry, ua gift will be arriving soon" but it never does.so why mention. I give him birthday presents, I get to plan for a gig with him or just a weekend out. Sometimes I feel like the man in the relationship.
I am an open person and have spoken at length with him concerning this issue. I make an effort to call him just to see how he is. But he rarely does it unless I point it out to him. You might say that he is just not that into me, but I think he loves me, just have a funny way of showing him.
About sex, he is the kind of guy who willl jump straight to ua vagina and not work his way there, all women know how frustrating this can be.and it is to me, because am never really turned on, again, I have spoken to him about it. He either doesn't know how or he suffers amnesia, and am tired of whinning all the time. Please help and shed some light on what could be wrong with him or me.