Hi guys. I'm 21 years old and Ive been in love with this guy since I was 10. Then 5 years ago we got together and we had really great relationship. But 1 year ago he cheated on me and when I found out he broke up with me and stayed with the other girl, but he still calls me saying that he doesn't love her and he is just having fun because he is still young I got tired from it and had a BF but I couldn't stop thinking about my ex so I broke up with him. I want my ex back so bad but I don't know how to get him. He calls me 5 times a day but asks me not to tel anyone because he docent want her new girl to find out that he still contacts me. Guys help help help

So if he is with a new girl why is he contacting you 5 imtes a day? Sounds like he is using you as a plan B. If he loves you and wants to be with you why is he worried about his girl knowing he calls u? I would let him know when he is ready to be with you, to call u, until then enjoy your time with the new girl...

Wow, he can't have his cake and eat it too. So he wants to have fun? You go out and have your fun and leave him behind because you are not a door mat that he can turn to when it's convenient to him.

"In the real world actions speek louder than words."- DMX- Romeo must Die

He doesn't sound like a man, he sounds like a scared little boy, too afraid to take responsibility for his emotions/actions and it seems he needs to grow up and find himself still.

Question is, who are you? What do you want? And why?

Do you love and respect yourself? No seriously, if you can't answer that than you are in need of some soul searching...

If you keep going along with his cheating on his G/F by letting him contact you, and keeping it a secret, your as much a liar, and a cheater as he is, and probably deserve each other.

You want him back, just keep doing what your doing, and he will always play on your feelings, and use you, after he has used the one he is with. Then it will be your turn again.

Are you sure your 21, you act so much younger.

Clear signs of you needing to leave him no matter what the excuses. You guys were together for that long and he cheats on you, breaks up with you and then starts another relationship right after?

You should be on your way to building a life without him, he cheated on you dude, you should already know this. Since you're young, I'm guessing these feelings of wanting him back are normal. You've grown attached to him and I can see how you have no cruel intentions for anything other then the fact that you want him back.

You need to leave him alone, don't let him use you like that. He's not worth it, just try to stay away from him and not talk to him. I promise you it's for the better.

Why do you let him contact you 5 times a day? He cheated on you, he left you, he rubbed it in, he treats her like he did you, and you want to talk to him? Not enough time in the world to deal with that guy.