I lived with a woman for 3.5 years. She had 3 kids and I had one. We were very in love. Her oldest boy never accepted me and finally things got bad. She protected her son and said she had to move out for everyone's sake. Well its been 5 months and we still talk and see each other a little but nothing serious. Within the last two months, She came back twice wanting to start over slowly but then after 4 days, a wall went up. She told me her son called her names when we got together for ice cream with the other three kids and she has a hard time fighting this fight. Tell me what to do? How can I get to talk to her oldest boy? I'm sure its her oldest boy that's stopping us again and yes she is a very good mom. What can I say to her and what can I say to The oldest boy.. The three other kids would love us back together