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  • May 9, 2009, 10:52 AM
    girlwhofeelsbad
    Old love should I tell him
    Okay so I am love with a guy who was my youth pastor his name is dane and I really love him but he just got married should I tell him how I feel or should I just let him go and am I sick and wrong for liking him I am fifteen
  • May 9, 2009, 11:08 AM
    N0help4u

    Keep your feelings to yourself and focus on other things. No good can come of telling a youth pastor that is married your feelings. Married couples often tell each other everything too.
    At the very least, you could end up feeling embarrassed.
  • May 9, 2009, 11:14 AM
    Couchcarrot
    You should definitely NOT tell him how you feel. Crushes come and
    Go in early adolescence, and, in most cases, it's best to keep them to
    Yourself.

    A recently married man who is a decent man would not want to know
    That a young girl has these feelings about him. He has just entered into
    A committed relationship that should be the focus of all of his romantic
    Interests. It is a very bad idea to try to come between a man and
    His wife, even if you were an adult woman. Try to think how you would
    Feel if you were recently married to a man, and had to feel in the least
    Bit threatened by outside influences from other girls/women.

    Life is full of things that we want and cannot have. Coming to terms with
    That and trying to do what is the right thing will make you feel good about
    Yourself.

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