So I have been dating this guy for about 6 months now and I am deeply in love with, But latley eveyrthing he does or say gets me irritated.. Does this mean we are falling about? We bicker about the stupiest and silliest things but when ever I try to explain why I am bicker about it he doesn't understand I feel like I am making a bigger deal then it really is but I know I am not. Can anyone help? :(

"...6 months now and i am deeply in love..."-You

Tell me what is love?

Okay, I have one thing to say, Trust You're HEART!! I it says NO. BELIEVE IT. I regret my relationship. 6 MONTHS IS NOT ENOUGH!! Go out and have some fun, if you are under 30 , better think twice.

Sorry about the spelling

Are you easily irratated? Or is it just him?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Are you easily irratated?? Or is it just him?

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Its both.. sometimes I can be irratated easliy but then sometimes its him..

More info is really needed such as age, living arrangements, school or work situation?

I can tell you irritation is impatience, stubbornness, unwilling to listen, Or incompatibility, so the question is what to do about it, and that's to get understanding, through communications, which takes two people willing to talk, and listen.

Could be your just learning how to communicate.

6 months is still usually the "blissful" stage. Arguing all the time is never a good sign.

I don't think 6 months is too soon to fall in love... but that greatly depends on your age and you don't sound very old.

Have you talked to him about how the arguments make you feel?
What do you argue about? (specifics)

At this stage the two of you should be having fun getting to know each other. If your are arguing over the stupidest things then the two of you are lackings something. Which is communication.

How can you be deeply in love with him so soon. At 6 months I wasn't deeply in love with my fiancé. Love takes time and maybe the two of you moved too fast.

You have two options: 1) work things out by talking or 2) leave. The choice is yours.

Sweetie, I promise you... if you are getting irritated with every little thing he does.. it's not going to get better. This reminds me of the people that get married and expect problems to get better. They don't.

Relationships are really hard. And if you aren't both willing to give more than take it will never ever work. Give it time. TALK to each other. Communicate. And if you are not happy, then something needs to happen.

If there are aspects of him that are really irritating you, you have to bring it up. How can he change if you don't talk to him about it? You got to at least give him to chance to improve.

If after confronting him about your concerns and there is still no progress, then we have bigger issues.

Well think to yourself what's irritating you. If it's him let him know certain things bother you. It sucks when you don't let someone know what's going on.