OK.. umm I had this girl like me for a long time but I never asked her out.. now she doesn't like me and now I want to go out with her but its too late she all ready has a boy friend. Now I don't want to she her at all . Now that I know where ever she is going to be I try to avoid her is that a good thing or bad thing to do. I need some help bad... :confused::(

To be truthful it is good and bad. It's bad to try to avoid her for too long because then you never really face your problems and get over her, but it's good because you need that time to think and mentally prepare yourself to see her.

You have to do what is right for you so if avoiding her is what you need to do then do it. Once your feelings die down and your capable of being around her then you don't have to worry about avoid her.

I am glad to hear you repected her relationship.

You are doing the right thing. This is what we call "no contact." You had your chance, but you missed it. Now she's with someone else so you need to get over her. Everyone has a different way of getting over someone, but avoiding any sort of contact will definitely help the healing process.

If you keep talking to her while she has a boyfriend, it might be very difficult to heal, or it just drags out the process.

Avoid her until you feel like you've moved on with your life.

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Originally Posted by th3 lost

ok.. umm i had this girl like me for a long time but i never asked her out .. now she doesnt like me and now i want to go out with her but its too late she all ready has a boy friend. now i dont want to she her at all . now that i know where ever she is going to be i try to avoid her is that a good thing or bad thing to do. I need some help bad....:confused::(

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I need to add something... the girl is my brother in laws sister... :(

Thank you all your answers do help some what:)