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  • Sep 25, 2006, 03:19 PM
    cutie08
    I'm so so confused please help
    Okay so I have this boyfriend and we have been dating for two months today. But I don't know for some reason he seems like he is losing interset in me I mean when I confront him about this he is just like no I'm not I lovee you so much. But for the last few times I have been talking to him I have to say I love you first and whenever I I'm him saying baby what's up he is just like hi nothing and he seem like he doesn't have that much time for me anymore like he used to I don't know he tells me that he loves me so much he just doesn't know what's worng with him right now. And I don't really get it. BUt also he worries so much I mean today he called me 14 times but I didn't anser b.c my phone was still on silent from the school day and I was in I diff room than my phone and when I finally found the calls he was like its about ****ing time you anser and I was like I'm sorry I didn't know you were calling and he was like freaking out b.c he thought I was cheating on him and I don't cheat I never have and I nevare will because I know that I wouldn't want someone doing that to me but you I don't know


    What should I do?

    Please help mee
  • Sep 25, 2006, 07:18 PM
    s_cianci
    First of all, you've only been together 2 months. You're getting way too serious for that short amount of time. His temper is also a huge red flag. Cursing at you on the phone like that borders on abuse ; be very wary. Verbal/emotional abuse often precedes physical abuse so think this one over long and hard before becoming more involved. He had no right to talk to you like that and to accuse you of cheating. Also the fact that he's calling you 14 times a day is not a healthy sign either. If he's that needy and clingy now, he'll only become more so down the road. He doesn't sound like a very good catch to me. Right now I'd back of for a while and give him some space. Have no contact for a while. Don't answer his calls. If he becomes angry then inform hm that you'll only talk to him when he can treat you civilly and keep your word. It amazes me how horribly guys treat girls. But the only reason they do it is because you girls let them get away with it by tolerating it and going out with them regardless. If you girls would learn to shun the jerks then there'd be far fewer of them in this world. You girls have the power to make these guys treat you with respect. But it's only going to happen if you make it happen.
  • Oct 13, 2006, 11:23 AM
    lilian79
    You are moving toooo fast... Slow down breath... and let that be one of those little rocks on your road,, so skip over it and move on..
  • Oct 14, 2006, 06:09 AM
    talaniman
    Too much drama for 2 months of dating. I thought dating was supposed to be fun. You two sound like a bad marriage already. Sorry just the way it looks to me.
  • Oct 14, 2006, 06:15 AM
    J_9
    Can I ask how old you two are?

    Yes, you need to slow down and take a step back. This is was too much for 2 months.

    Would you want to live every day of the rest of your life like this? I didn't think so.

    Think long and hard about how you want to live the rest of your life.
  • Oct 16, 2006, 03:30 PM
    nookie4life
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by cutie08
    okay so i have this boyfriend and we have been dating for two months today. but i dunno for some reason he seems like he is loosing interset in me i mean when i confront him about this he is just like no im not i lovee you so much. but for the last few times i have been talking to him i have to say i love you first and whenever i im him saying baby whats up he is just like hi nothing and he seem like he dosnt have that much time for me anymore like he used to i dunno he tells me that he loves me so much he just dosnt know whats worng with him right now. and i dont really get it. BUt also he worries so much i mean today he called me 14 times but i didnt anser b.c my phone was still on silent from the school day and i was in i diff room than my phone and when i finally found the calls he was like its about ****ing time you anser and i was like im sorry i didnt know you were calling and he was like freaking out b.c he thought i was cheating on him and i dont cheat i never have and i nevare will because i kno that i wouldnt want someone doing that to me but ya i dunno


    what should i do??

    please help mee
    I can suguar code it if you want me to are giveit to you like it is. He may love you and not be in luv with you are he just don't care see he cover up they fact that he don't feel the same about you biy telling you he love you because he care fore you but don't want to hurt you or he could jst be having problems at home or he could be feeling like your feeling so talk to him and tell him how youfeel don't lay no blame just ask him to keep it real. nookie4life
  • Oct 16, 2006, 03:31 PM
    nookie4life
    :cool:
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by nookie4life
    I CAN SUGUAR CODE IT IF YOU WANT ME TO ARE GIVEIT TO YOU LIKE IT IS. HE MAY LOVE YOU AND NOT BE IN LUV WITH YOU ARE HE JUST DONT CARE SEE HE COVER UP THEY FACT THAT HE DONT FEEL THE SAME BOUT YOU BIY TELLING YOU HE LOVE YOU BECAUSE HE CARE FORE YOU BUT DONT WANT TO HURT YOU OR HE COULD JST BE HAVEING PROBLEMS AT HOME OR HE COULD BE FEELING LIKE YOUR FEELING SO TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOUFEEL DONT LAY NO BLAME JUST ASK HIM TO:cool: KEEP IT REAL. NOOKIE4LIFE

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