Hello everyone! I have three children two girls ages, 12, 7 and a 20 month old son with my husband. My girls father does not want to be apart of their lives. I found out that up until now he still does not own up to being their father with proven paternity. I don't collect child support because his job consists of illegal activities. I've been with my husband for 5 years my younger daughter calls my husband daddy because she does not know her real father. Should I consider stepparent adoption? My husbands idea.