Wanted ToTake Things Slow - She Moved On TO a 60 Year-Old Man.
I recently began talking to a woman at a local coffee shop who was recently getting over a relationship. We hit it offf pretty good-she stated that we should go out on a date.
As much as I wanted to, my instincts were saying no because I could tell that she was not truly over her relationship. She would text him, but at the same time say things were over between them.
I asked her if she would like to take things slower-she said that she would like that.
She e-mailed me her telephone number this past Saturday saying call her whenver I wanted to talk.
I attempted to call her Sunday and Monday-no answer. Wednesday she e-mails me saying that she was already dating someone else. She didn't think I was interested.
I found out from a friend at the café where we hung out that she is dating a 60 year-old man (she is 42).
I am now confused because I thought she really wanted to make a go of things.
Should I have moved things faster?