I went threw foster care and I got jejected bye lots of people and I just want to say it hurts now I am with a loving family who cares for me I hope it stays that way but who has been in it could you help me cope with it

Who is your case worker and with what agency?

Well actually I have been in foster care for well actually I was adopted and I have been here for 8 years but I want my mom and well it is hard

I grew up in foster care. I was not adopted but came close once. I'd be happy to talk with you. It is hard in foster care and wanting your mom doesn't ever go away... she's your mom. Sometimes its hard for adoptive parents or foster parents to understand that. I know my mom did a lot of bad stuff, and it is hard for them to understand that it is still your mom and even if you get mad about the things that put you in foster care, at the end of the day you still want your mom to love you most.

Anyhow, I do understand, and if you'd like to talk, I'll listen.

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Originally Posted by rollie-pollie

i went threw foster care and i got jejected bye lots of people and i just want to say it hurts now i am with a loving family who cares for me i hope it stays that way but who has been in it could you help me cope with it

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Anytime you want to come here and get some of your emotions out... you are allowed to talk here! I know it has to be hard not being able to stay in one place for a long time... I hope this lasts for you too!

I still don't get it it hurts me really bad and I want to go back to my mom I ran away once and then they found me and I was screaming for them to not take me home I think I need to be with my real mom because it is way to hard for me and yeah

Hey Rollie... sorry that you are having such a bad experience. Tell me why you are not willing to give it a chance. Tell me what you are going through, it may help us help you feel better! All I can say right now is, try and make the most of what you have,then move forward... let me know what's really going on! XX