My girlfriend and I have been sleeping together for a while now. Everything between us is good. The other night I stayed over at her place and early in the morning we had started to have sex. Yes, we still used a condom. Sadly to say the sex didn't last to long because of us goofing around before hand, that I ejaculated very soon. I always pull out also when I ejaculate so that way we don't have to worry about pregnancy as much.

I always check the condom to see if it broke or anything. I checked before I went to sleep, and everything seemed fine, all my semen was still inside. When I got up the next morning I noticed again that there was a whole in the side. I had set it on the bedside, and I noticed it was leaking. It was a small hole when I filled it up with water. My girlfriend had just gotten off her period about 2 days before we slept together also.

I am not sure if I should be worried or not. She is completley fine and tells me not to worry at all because she knows she isn't. I am just concerned. Do you think I will be OK?

Personally I think you’re a fool. Not really but guys must be careful too if they don’t want to spend the next 18 years paying child support for an accident. Buy reliable condoms, ones you know you don’t have to worry about. Your girlfriend should be taking her own precautions too unless she wants to get pregnant.

Even the best condoms do not always work 100 percent. So even if you are using it perfect, they fail.

Also pulling out is not a method, it wlll reduce the amount of sperm but there is still plenty in all the early fluids

So what type of birth control is she also on, since a person can still get pregnant even on birth control and using a condom.

So unless you are ready to be a father you need to take as much precaution as possible and it could still happen.

So is there a chance, yes

There's always a chance, as has been said. The odds are in your favor however since you at used the condom... even though there was a small hole, it was certainly better than nothing.

Also, you pulled out prior to ejaculation with the condom on, so that goes in your favor. Include that she was just off her period... makes it slightly more in your favor in most cases.

Is it possible the hole was made from something you placed it on or leaned it against on the bedside table?

You will have to wait until her next period is due to be sure however. I know most people who use a condom use just that, but if you wanted to be extra careful, she may consider using some form of birth control as well.

Malama... :)