I'm not sure why he wants some time alone this weekend.
Hey guy,
I'm really confused, and input would be greatly appreciated. I've been dating this guy since December, and things have been going well. I'm not too clingy, and I don't try to keep tabs on him. Basically, I give him some freedom. Nothing has happened recently that would make me think I did something to turn him off. We were texting earlier and he asked if he could ask me for a favor. He then proceeded to tell me he needed to be alone this weekend. He also said "I've been thinking about a lot of things and I need time to think and be alone." Also, he said " I don't know hot I feel about where I am right now and I want to take time to assess my life." I asked him he he was having doubts about me, and said "Don't take this the wrong way, but I don't want to waste my time." He replied with "I know what you mean and I understand where you're coming from but I need time to think bc I want to be sure." He also assured me that I didn't upset him and it was nothing I or him had done. He said "It's my feelings and I can't really explain it or really put it into words." I think he's upset and needs his space... He said he'll talk to me when he knows what he's feeling. I told him I didn't want to complicate things and that I was sorry for whatever he's going through. I also said that I would communicate with him through text, email, phone, etc. He replied, "Thank you I appreciate that. I promise to let you know as soon as I know." I'm really confused right now. I basically want to know if I should prepare myself for a breakup. I have some idea of what's going through his mind, but I can't be sure. I told him "I'm trying not to assume, but usually someone doesn't want what they already have if they don't know what they want." He said "You can think what you want. I respect the fact that you want space when you're upset and I give it to you so you can do me the same courtesy." He had said that when I was trying to figure out what was wrong, but I backed off and he appreciated it. Any input would be nice. Thanks ahead of time!