It's kind of long, but please tell me what you think.

I've always had trust issues and it's really hard for me to tell my friends my secrets and to actually trust them. Lately things haven't been going so well with my best friends and I just don't know what to do. One of them (lets call her Vicky. I don't want to use real names) I find I have a lot in common with and we are a lot alike, but she always hangs out with these two guys who I really hate and she knows I hate them but she still hangs around them too much. One of them she likes and she's dated him twice.

Another one (lets call her Ashlee) used to be really close to me last year and we would always talk online as soon as the other got on. She'd call me everyday but then we stopped talking this year. She still refers to me as her best friend but we never really hang out anymore outside of school. She's even said that we weren't as close and we talked about it but then the next day the situation was still the same. Her and Vicky have always been so close and it kind of bugs me.

Then there's the other two (I'll call them Lindsey and Natalie) The have always been Best friends and they hang out all the time. Lindsey and I really didn't like each other until this year. Natalie and I were always good friends. The problem with them is the 2 of them and Vicky and Ashlee have been best friends since they were in like 3rd grade because they were all in the same classes, but I was never friends with them because I went to a different part of the school (confusing, I know). They always talk about sleepovers they went to and times they hung out, and I have no idea what they're talking about and I feel so left out. They all have those best friend necklaces and I don't have one.

And then there's the last best friend of mine (how about Marie). We've been best friends since first grade, but when we were younger she was really bossy and I was like her follower. But as we got older she got nicer and we became closer. She's kind of my link to the other four. She went to the same part of the school as the other four and she'd talk about them, but I'd never really met them until 6th grade when they put our whole grade together. But, we're so different now. I've changed so much and she doesn't like it. We still get along, but I used to go over to her house every weekend and now I haven't been to her house in months.

I don't get it. Why are they acting like this. All of them are sort of distancing themselves from me... :confused:

Maybe it is how you changed, or if you did something to make them mad, especially Marie because she sounds like your best then she started haten you. Vicky and Ashlee sound like best friends and hate you. And Lindsey and Natalie probably are best friends with each other but just friends with you.

Hard stuff. To be honest if you get too close to hormonal girls in my opinion, your going to get hurt. Try to stay more indpendant, make some more friends from different social groups then if one lot drops out on you, you will always have others to hang around with.

I can't remember the amount of times I spent weeks not talking to my friends!
Teenagers can hold grudges over the most stupid things. My 'best' friend in high school just stopped talking to me for 2 weeks. I had no other friends and hung out in the library every lunch break. When she started talking to me again she just said that she "didn't want to talk, didn't know why"

I never really found out what was wrong (if anything) but during that time she started hanging out with a few other people which is probably why, she didn't want me to be friends with them too.

These days she is a drug addict and a med school drop out.

I am still good friends with those people she 'dumped' me for.