Hi,

For a couple months now, I have been miserable because I fell in love with one of my best friends. She had just broken up with her ex and I thought they were done for good, so one day I planned on telling her how I felt and she came running up to tell me that her and her ex were back together. She knows that I'm in love with her now, but I know that she isn't going to break up with him... im really in love.. this is the first time I have felt like this, and I don't want it to go away.. how do I get her to love me back because I'm not just going to forget my feelings and walk away.

If you are not just going to walk away then you may be setting yourself up for a ton of heartache.

She is taken!

You can not Make someone fall in love with you,no matter what you do.

While you are pining away thinking of her,she is going on with her life.Having fun with someone else.

While she is going on with her life and you are waiting for what may never happen ,you could be missing the chance to meet someone who will return your feelings.

The only thing you can do is pull yourself together and move on. You took a chance but it doesn't turn up as you planned but you went for it.

I really don' think you should be her friend right now until your in a better place and you are able to control yourself.

Don't be one of these peoole that will try to destroy her relationship because of your feelings for her. Revenge is never an option.

Move on and pulled yourself together and know you can't always get what you want. If that was the case I would be with Will Smith right now.

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artlady agrees: Sorry,I think Jada would not approve :)
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I know she wouldn't! :-( I think they make a great couple but I wish he was single.

Sorry man. It is awful to see someone you have feelings for with another person. It is life, and it is what it is. Separate yourself from her and that whole situation and get out and enjoy all that life has to offer.

We can't make others love us, but we can love ourselves, and doing that makes you a joy to be with and will help benefit any relationship you have in the future.

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how do I get her to love me back because I'm not just gonna forget my feelings and walk away.

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If your aren't going to be smart then you will get your heart broken, and lose her as friend, because you can't make someone love you, as you love them.

Either deal with your feelings, and accept the way she feels, or run head first into a brick wall.

You need to step away so you can let your emotions settle. The pain right now is bearable, but if you continue down the path you're on, it will become unbearable, believe me. Take a step back and a deep breathe, it's worth it

Well Just Tell Her How You Feel And tell her that You Really Love Her

Good Luck