How to tell this girl that I have feelings for her
Hey everyone. There is this girl that I have been friends with for over a year now. We have hung out only a few times but when we do we have a lot in common and I find myself liking her more and more. Me and her have both got out of a relationship when we met each other and really helped each other through it. Her breakup seems to have really affect her as she sometimes seems to have a lack of confidence in herself. I try to help her through it and it sometimes helps but she finds herself get back to it somehow. At first she seemed very interested in me but I was very unaware of this because of how I felt at the time, and over time I don't feel she holds the same interest for me as I do for her now. She is always busy so its hard to get together as I often try to arrange, and I even text or call her and she seems to not answer or not respond. While us being friends, we have both dated other people and it hasn't worked out for either of us. And even then I still thought about her but am very skeptical of telling her how I feel because of how it is when I try to talk and never getting together to hang out. It was recently my birthday and she wrote me a letter saying that she is looking forward to seeing me soon and wrote love at the end of the letter. I sometimes feel like if I tell her she is not going to feel the same way even though she tells me that I am an amazing guy and tells me nice things like that when we talk. I want to tell her how I feel about her but don't know if its worth it or keep looking for someone else. Please help me in figureing out what I should do.