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  • Apr 25, 2009, 10:19 PM
    Hobbes_the_Cat
    No Thanks
    This guy keeps asking me out and I keep saying no, I am not ready for a relationship,
    I ask him to stop and am telling him its inapropriet, but he won't stop! Please help me.
    ( I am not saying my age on site by the way srry )
  • Apr 25, 2009, 10:39 PM
    Gemini54
    Just keep saying no.

    If he is older than you, and you're still under your parents care - you need to let them, or someone older you can trust, know.

    Don't let someone like this scare or intimidate you - if you feel it's inappropriate then let someone else know what's going on.
  • Apr 25, 2009, 11:00 PM
    mudweiser

    If he's harassing you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, if you are in school tell your guidance councilor or your principal or vice principal.

    If he is just being annoying, say yes, set a date and stand him up. I'm sure that'll get through him.

    Either way tell your dad about him or big brother and I'm sure they'll set the kid straight.

    Sarah
  • Apr 25, 2009, 11:45 PM
    chuff

    Tell him if he ask's you again you will file a restraining order.
  • Apr 26, 2009, 06:13 PM
    Hobbes_the_Cat

    He is but only by a year, ( but failed grade one lol) So is in my class,
  • Apr 26, 2009, 06:14 PM
    Alty

    Tell your parents, threaten him with a restraining order if he refuses to take hell no for an answer.

    You don't have to put up with this. You said no and no means NO!
  • Apr 26, 2009, 06:24 PM
    pathisfer
    Many guys think that persistence pays off, it's what Hollywood teaches them, and unfortunately most of the guys that do this in real life are troubled.
    Tell him that "No" is a complete sentence and it's not negotiable. Any response after that to him is just giving him a reaction he wants and he'll persist. Telling him that you're not ready for a relationship is giving him an explanation that he will try and work around so stop responding to him completely.
    If you've already done that or he doesn't respect that, then you need an adult/authorities to intervene.
  • Apr 29, 2009, 07:27 PM
    Hobbes_the_Cat

    Well, I had to move away from him in class, and he still talks to me so he gets in trouble now, and yah, so He hasn't bothered me after I posted this.
  • Apr 29, 2009, 07:32 PM
    chuff
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Hobbes_the_Cat View Post
    Well, I had to move away from him in class, and he still talks to me so he gets in trouble now, and yah, so He hasnt bothered me after I posted this.

    If he does start talking to you again, tell him, "It's so funny you keep getting in trouble for a girl wouldn't do the same for you."
  • Apr 30, 2009, 05:14 AM
    Romefalls19

    Continue what you are doing, alert your principal and parents
  • May 1, 2009, 05:21 PM
    Hobbes_the_Cat

    Lol
  • May 2, 2009, 11:08 AM
    Hobbes_the_Cat

    Thanks

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