About 4 months ago my friends girlfriend told him she was pregnant. Now
They are on again off again and he is not sure she is really pregnant. She
Refuses to show him any proof of the pregnancy, and refuses to let him go
To dr. with her.She wears baggy clothing around him so he can't see if she's
Showing or not. Her due date was Sept 10 and she says they will induce next
Week. She says she will not call him so he can be there. He is really tore up
And wants to be a part of this child's life if it is his. What can he do to find
Out if she is really pregnant? If she is how can he make sure he is there for
The child? If she is not pregnant, is there any legal actions he can take against her?

I don't know about any legal actions he can take against her if she is not pregnant. If she is and he believes there's a good chance that it's his then he can insist on a paternity test. On the flip side, if he does that and it turns out that he's the dad, he'll be paying her child support for at least the next 18 years.

All this smells fishy to me to be quite frank!! :cool:
Why 4 months ago did she tell him she is pregnant?? If she is due on the 10Sept?
Something isn't right here!

Also if she refuses to him show him proof or go to the doctor then proves to me she is hiding something!

Are they not intimate?
He could see then if she has a big tummy! Can't he?

No, they are not intimate anymore, so he can't tell if she is or she isn't.

CRAZY, What to do with Crazy people. How to deal with crazy people. Become Crazy himself. Get a little nuts that will take her back a few notches and then the truth will be revealed.

Joe

It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like she just wants the attention of "oh my God, what if she is pregnant, and its my baby?" Even if she is, if she won't let him have anything to do with the baby, then worst comes to worst, tell him to look at it this way: he can take her to court if he really wants to be involved in the baby's life. Or he doesn't have to pay child support. But as his friend, you should help him get through this, and just be there for him.

This thread is FOUR AND A HALF YEARS OLD!


That baby (if there was one) is now a kindergartner.

PLEASE watch dates when responding to questions.

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