Can I get married to someone I don't find goodlooking
Hi,
I am in a relationship with a person who is my best friend. He understands me. I am very happy whenver I am with him. I find that we both are perfectly compatible. Our interests match , we like doing similar things. We both want similar things from life. Even our professions are the same. He really helps me at work.
I can discuss with him anything under the sun. Even the fact that I am not that attracted to him. He doesnot fit the characteristics that I have in mind for my husband. Even when we started dating, I was never attracted to him but I loved his company. We both have amazing fun together. We travel, watch movies, discuss work and also some crazy stuff.
This is how we entered into a relationship. But whenevr he would pop up the question of marriage, I would start thinking ke whether I should marry him or not?
How would my family and friends react to after looking at us together? I always feel that we don't look nice together and this makes me look at couples around me. The moment I see a goodllooking couple, I start comparing ourselves with them.
What should I do? Should I ignore the shallow things - his looks and get married to him as I know he would keep me happy and would be there for me. Or shall I call it off(its really hard for me as I love his company- he is my best friend) ?
Please help?