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  • Apr 23, 2009, 07:07 PM
    nichole813
    What do I do about this?
    Ok, so there is this guy I am totally crushing on, he is a sophomore and I am a freshman. We hang out with the same group of friends, and we talk occasionally. But I have noticed that he is very shy and talks to me more online then he does at school. Is that because he is too shy, or he doesn't want to talk to me at school? He is also really funny, and tries really hard to make me laugh. Lol...

    He has asked me to hang out, and take a walk with him. But my parents didn't let me go. Now it seems like he isn't talking to me so much. He is the one reason I love to go to school, because I know I will see him everyday. He is the first guy I have really fallen so head over heels for. I am scared that if we become more than friends I will eventually lose him. But then he is also they guy that I REALLY LIKE!

    HELP!! I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!

    What would you do if you were in my position??

    Ok so I am really really really shy around guys I LIKE... so everyone who says just ask him out! I don't think I could ever do that because it would be really bad... lol
  • Apr 23, 2009, 07:09 PM
    Fuzzball_Kara

    Well, right now, friends is good. Get to know him and let things progress. How long have you spoken to him?
  • Apr 23, 2009, 07:11 PM
    nichole813

    I have known him since the beginning of the school year. And just started talking to him At the beginning of the second semester...
  • Apr 23, 2009, 07:16 PM
    Fuzzball_Kara

    Okay from my experience, I just talked to a boy for one weekend and we started dating and he's the most amazing boyfriend in the world... I would not recommend this however because it is very risky and I was extremely lucky... XD Take your time, and I know it seems like it has already been forever, but things tend to take a course and people tend to change in their emotions toward people for the worst or for the better.
  • Apr 23, 2009, 07:19 PM
    nichole813

    Yeah that's what I'm afraid about...
  • Apr 23, 2009, 07:20 PM
    Fuzzball_Kara

    What exactly? You're afraid your emotions will change?
  • Apr 23, 2009, 07:23 PM
    nichole813

    No not mine... I'm afraid that now he is being more friendly that he will start to be like he used to be and ignore me... and It scares me.
  • Apr 23, 2009, 08:22 PM
    none12345

    Let him know how you feel about him. Tell him you like him. Don't let fear ruin a chance of a lifetime's full of happiness. Who knows? He might be the one you marry and have kids with =P. Sometimes it good to take a risk. You have nothing to lose, if it turns out he's not that one, its okay, other people will walk into your life =P
  • Apr 23, 2009, 10:13 PM
    talaniman

    Your not allowed to date, so what is it you expect from him other than friendship?

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