Can I break no contact rule if I broke up with him?
Hi relationship experts. This one is odd.
My ex said he lived with his ex and was having difficulty with her co operation in trying to sell the house. AFter 4 years of seeing him (yes it is shameful) - and the problem of his situation rearing its head every few months, me having doubts about the truth of his situation, freaking out and him getting upset about this and saying he had made some progress but that these things take time - I finally couldn't handle it anymore and said that if anything was to go any further between me and him that he had to sort his situation out.
He asked me if I could be his friend while he sorted it out. i.e. no sex, or if could see him while he sorted it out, or if it was better for me to have no contact with him while he sorted it out. AFter thinking this over for a couple of months I went back and said no - I couldnt' be his friend while he sorted it out and that he had had long enough to do it and that there should only be contact once he has sorted things out - so that I could move on if he wasn't going to do anything about it as I couldn't be sure that he would. He said him asking me what was best for me was him not being selfish and that him agreeing to NC was him not being selfish.
3 months on and I still want him back, can I break no contact?