I think my ex girlfriends son is mine
Hi I have a rather difficult problem that has been eating me up for years. In 1971 I stopped going out with my Girlfriend because she would not commit to me and refused to lose her virginity to me, after she begged me to go back with her, I met and married another woman and the years went by so quickly and then in 1980/1981 I met her at her parents house and we ended up having a brief but passionate affair, she had married in 1973 and moved away.
I then found out that she had a daughter and the timing was right, now after all these years 38 to be exact I find I can not get the idea that I have a daughter out of my mind, I want to approach her and ask for a DNA test?
I do not feel I owe her anything after all I have been cheated out of my heritage for all these years, haven't I?