Hey guys, okay well... a few weeks ago (bout 2) me and my boyfriend had sex and when he... pulled out... their was nothing I think he pulled out to late!. ever since then ihave been very tierd and very dizzy. My period still hasn't come and I am starting to have stomach pains I am so nervous! I don't know if I am or not but I am going to get a test when my boyfriend gets paid and if I am? My parents are going to kill me!! I can not get an abortion because, that is tAking away someone's life that is just not right in my eyes! Please someone help me!!

There is no such thing as "pulling out too late". Pulling out at anytime is not an effective birth control method. There is enough sperm released before ejaculation to cause pregnancy. If you are not using a condom, you have a very good chance of getting pregnant or getting an STD.

Take a home pregnancy test.

You could possibly be pregnant yes. That is the risk you take. Pull out method is no method at all.

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Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

You could possibly be pregnant yes. That is the risk you take. Pull out method is no method at all.

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OK I deffinitly will thank you

If you are pregnant, you will have some difficult decisions to make. Hopefully you have a loving and supportive family to turn to.

If you are not pregnant, please use this as a lesson. You must use birth control and take proper care of your body.

if your not able to find a birth control method that fits your lifestyle have your boyfriend wear a condom, safest form of protection out their, with the exception of abstinence. I got pregnant 3X with the pulling out method. It doesn't work.

The "pull out" method does NOT work... I know for a fact... because I am a mother of 2 wonderful kids and their dad and I used that method...
Besides that the more you stress about it the more you might concince yourself you are pregnant... stress also causes you to not have your period... so for now don't jump to conclusions or stress over it... wait till your boyfriend gets paid and make sure to take the test with your 1st morning urine... my doctor said that's the best time to take the test.. I don't know... good luck either way...

Withdrawl method is difficult for many to use... it works for some, but not for others, and therefore is not usually a very reliable method of birth control.


See what happens when your period is due... if you are already late, try a test. If you are pregnant, let your parents know right away... best to let them know from the start so you don't have that hanging over your head causing you more worry and you can then receive timely prenatal care. You will have some choices as to what you might want to do... since abortion is not something you are interested in, there is adoption or raising the baby yourself.

If you aren't pregnant, as the others have said, use this scare as a lesson to make sure you are protected at all times.

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Originally Posted by jjwoodhull

If you are pregnant, you will have some difficult decisions to make. Hopefully you have a loving and supportive family to turn to.

If you are not pregnant, please use this as a lesson. You must use birth control and take proper care of your body.

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What if I don't have a loving family and I am on birth controle but my dad was late getting it by a week!

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Originally Posted by DoulaLC

Withdrawl method is difficult for many to use...it works for some, but not for others, and therefore is not usually a very reliable method of birth control.


See what happens when your period is due....if you are already late, try a test. If you are pregnant, let your parents know right away....best to let them know from the start so you don't have that hanging over your head causing you more worry and you can then receive timely prenatal care. You will have some choices as to what you might want to do....since abortion is not something you are interested in, there is adoption or raising the baby yourself.

If you aren't pregnant, as the others have said, use this scare as a lesson to make sure you are protected at all times.

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Thank you for your help but... my only issue is if I do tell my parents they will kick me out of the house

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Originally Posted by tracyhilton1201

the "pull out" method does NOT work...I know for a fact...cuz I am a mother of 2 wonderful kids and their dad and I used that method...
Besides that the more you stress about it the more you might concince yourself you are pregnant...stress also causes you to not have your period...so for now dont jump to conclusions or stress over it...wait till your bf gets paid and make sure to take the test with your 1st morning urine...my doctor said thats the best time to take the test..i dont know...good luck either way....

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Thank you for all your help I shall do that asap!

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Originally Posted by shannonbug

what if i dont have a loving family and i am on birth controle but my dad was late getting it by a week!

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Are you saying that you are on the pill, but skipped taking it for a week? Is your period late yet?

I understand that you are scared, but if your Father is purchasing your birth controls pills, then doesn't he know that you are sexually active? I think that your parents will be more understanding than you think. Of course they will be upset at first, but they will be concerned about you and your health as well.