I have been "talking" to this guy for 6 months.
We have talked about dating and all
But he still hasn't ask me to be more serious.
He talks about me to his friends and they are good things.
He is very nice to me. We get along and never fight.

Am I doing something wrong?:confused:

Have you shown him any signs? Maybe he feels the same way and is wondering why you're not responding in a romantic way. Or it could be completely different and he may not want a relationship at all. So many possibilities

MAybe he is not ready. Why rush it, you are enjoying where you are right? Why lable it, and make it some technicality. Let it be what it is.

Enjoy what you have with him, and breath a little. Your emotions will get ahead of you and then you maybe in for a pain in the but as you may become infatuated. Attraction isn't necessarily just about being with some one you like, but also being comfortable with what you already have, you. :) I know lame right. Fair enough, but that is just how I see this situation. It is your's to decide what is right or wrong.

I'm sure you'll get some better advice from other posters too, so keep reading.


Peace and kindness.

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Originally Posted by KarleeJo

i have been "talking" to this guy for 6 months.
we have talked about dating and all
but he still hasnt ask me to be more serious.
he talks about me to his friends and they are good things.
he is very nice to me. We get along and never fight.

am i doing something wrong?:confused:

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Dude... there is almost nothing better then a girl asking a guy out! Try it!

Maybe he is shy.
Or maybe he just wants to take things slow and be friends and get to know you better.
I have seen so many relationships where the guy and girl jump right into a relationship and end up with a very rocky relationship, break up and hate each other.
Relationships that grew with time last much better. Enjoy him where he's at and don't make him feel pushed.

What's the rush? He's treating you well and he seems to enjoy your company. So you don't have to worry about approaching him. Just talk to him more and get to know him more.