How to deal with stealing in the family
My sister and her husband stole many household things from my home when I am leaving in a very far way country. They also stole couple times from my parents who are in their 80 years. I confronted her and she is not talking to me or my family. Her kids who were contacting me by e mails before are silent now. This summer me and my husband are going to visit my parents and I feel very uncomfortable with the situation. I talk to my parents every week and they are avoiding conversations about my sister and her family. My sister was the good child and I was the bad child when we were young. I do not want to get in a conversation for this with my parents because they are old living alone and I am not good arguing ( my heart start to beat heavily, have a hard time breathing, can't talk).
Because of the childhood when my sister was treated like an angel I am pretty sure my parents blame me for the whole situation. One thing very important is that she leaves close to them and I am on the other side of the world. Whatever I do is not a help to my parents. I send them money she got them somehow. I send them cloths she goes and take everything.
I send my parents pictures of the new home that we purchase, my sister took all pictures and my mom said not a single picture is left in her house.
I want to do something for my parents, nice to make feel them better and I see nothing I can do. If you are in my situation what are you going to do?