I am 32, divorced with a 10 yr old. I was introduced to a man, equally as wealthy as I, that was going through a divorce. LET ME MAKE IT CLEAR, I DID NOT KNOW HIM WHEN HIS WIFE SERVED HIM DIVORCE PAPERS. She left because she found an even wealthier man. Also, I do not care about how much money a man has NOR do I need it.

I went out with this man, we'll call him Martin. I like to drink wine and obviously he likes to drink too. A little too much. He is 8 years older than I am and he is a runner----runner I say because he likes to run away from problems... like most alcoholics. We spent many, many months together and hours upon hours of quality time. We became very close and we were great friends. His divorce isn't final, I told him I was pregnant, he said very cruel things to me, belittled me and doesn't want anything to do with me. This from a man that told me I was the woman of his dreams and the sexiest, most intelligent attractive lady he has ever met.

I am devastated. Should I contact him? Should I let my attorney handle him relinquishing his Parental Rights (he will agree to this---he told me) and not warn him? Abortion is NOT an option and I haven't heard from him in 10 days. We used to talk 4-5 times a day and spend every evening together. I so want to see him face to face and talk.

Ideas on his behavior and how to get him to talk to me? We do need to talk... we are professional adults.

He is a horses' and he does not deserve you or that child he needs to grow up and take resposibility ugh men like that make me sick

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Originally Posted by nitelight198073

he is a horses' and he does not deserve you or that child he needs to grow up and take resposibility ugh men like that make me sick

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I read your post and it made me laugh... he is a horse's a**! Thank you for that

Does he have any children of his own? Even so I don't understand why he wouldn't take responsibility for this child being a 40 year old man with money. If he were a real man he would talk about it face to face with you.

I believe his rig couldn't just get terminated unless you have a husband willing to adopt the child or he is a bad influence on the child (drug addict, criminal record, etc).

He was liar and sadly you fell for his games. And with these games a baby was produce.

Regardless if you need the money or not, I would simply go after him for child support because your child deserves that and if you don't want the money then you can send it to me. Lol Only playing! You can put it in a bank account for the child for when he/she gets older.

There's a reason you don't get involved with married men.

Have your lawyer deal the rest from here. The moment he started calling you names was the moment he lost the right to handle this without mediation.

I will give you rich professional people, the same advise I give the young dumb high schoolers, who behave just as your doing, get the child support for the child, and try to be good parents.

That's the only one who is important.

The rest is your own personal BS, which frankly is childish, and immature.

Hey chuff how are you doing. I noticed you giving some good advice and I kind of need your help. If you don't mind can you see my thread please. Appreciate the help man.