What's going on in his head? Im confused 24/7
Me and my boyfriend began arguing about 2 months ago as he said he needed space and to see his friends as we were used to spending everyday with each other! I never stopped him doing any of this but his friends began to say he was under the thumb etc so he began to see less of me which I understand! At the beginning this caused the arguments because I felt like he was trying to get away from me but then I began to understand! He didn't go on a lads holiday last year and I felt like I am blamed for this even though he said he didn't want to go because he knew how he felt when I went on one and he didn't want to do the same to me... Anyway to cut a long story short he told me he didn't know whether he loves me anymore! :( we had a big argument and he said he couldn't keep arguing cause it was hurting him and if we had another one that would be it! Anyway a couple of days later we had a nice day together even though we didn't hug or kiss (he doesn't feel comfy at the moment) but I saw him out on the night and he tried to hug and kiss me! I was shocked so pulled back and he got shirty with me when I tried to find him later and seemed to push him further away! :confused: we had a big argument that night and he said things were going to take a long time to go back to normal if they even do!Anyway we haven't argued for around a week an half and I don't feel like he puts any effort in he still doesn't hug and kiss me because he said it doesn't feel right and he's finding it hard:confused: I'm confused as I thought if people wanted to make a go of it they wanted to do these things? I feel as if I always have to ask to see him!and I always have to text him first etc... I don't know how he feels as he never says and I don't like asking in case he gets annoyed. I only see him around 3 times per week now and he says he is finding it hard to hug or kiss me!he doesn't want to hold hands etc :(
Everyone keeps telling me to walk away but I would like to fix this as he makes me the happiest person in the world just knowing I have him in my life :( I can't understand if he feels how he does why is he sticking around in my life?why hasn't he walked away? Does anyone have any ideas?
