I'm dating this woman and when we go out she's amazing but the moment I drop her at her place she would not answer or return my calls.does she has a split personality or she's just giving me hell because she knew that I love her so much? Help.

Just ask her, I'm sure she has an explanation.

How long has it been since you last talked to her? I agree with wish. I'm sure there is some logical explination behind this.

How long have you known her? For you to ask if she has a split personality is kind of wacky if you've only known her for a week--however if it's been months, does she show signs of this- and what are they?

Sarah

How long have you been "seeing" her? A few dates? Or, are we talking a relationship?

Clingy, Why are you phoning her as soon as you drop her off?

You may feel like your in love with her but I highly doubt it she feels exactly the same, you need to give this women some space.

You think of her having the problem but maybe its your problem being to anxious and obviously she does get in touch with you or you would not be able to set up a date.

How long have you been dating for?

Obsess much?

OK, I'm no relationship genius, well actually everyone is, as long as it isn't the person in the relationship, as soon as you like someone a lot, all sense of common sense goes out the window (well it does for me)...

I just recently went on a date with a girl, we got on really really well, I dropped her off, I really missed her instantly, but, girls like time to think, also, you need to wait a bit before calling, don't sound too needy... your probably not despirate, but it can appear that way, and girls hatttttee despirate or clingy guys, trust me, I used to be one lol...

But just take it easy, relax, I have a 2 hour rule after a date!.

Hope that helps a bit

Do you give her a chance to call you?

Nobody wants to be with someone that comes off as being needy/clingy. That is a major turn out and a quick way to drown a relationship.

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Originally Posted by gorongoza

i'm dating this woman and when we go out she's amazing but the moment i drop her at her place she would not answer or return my calls.does she has a split personality or she's just giving me hell because she knew that i love her so much? help.

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You say you're dating. You don't necessarily describe it as a relationship.

Yet you say you love her so much?

You're smothering her. If she just went on a date with you, it's possible that she doesn't want to talk to you right afterwards.

A man who is too needy is a turn-off. And honestly can come off a bit... scary. Just relax. Give her time to come to you. Let her meet you halfway. Then you won't have to wonder about her feelings.

If she doesn't come to you, you've lost nothing because she was never yours in the first place.

She'll let you know how she feels when 2 police officers show up at your door with a nice restraining order. Dating and you're already "loving her so much", you need to get a life. If you call and she doesn't pick up, wait a few days for her to call you

YES

Well, I think talk to her directly. Ask her is there any issue in picking up the call.

Most of the times, Girls do not pick up the call. Because she might be busy. She may be having high attitude, as many people may be dating to her. I have observed this kind of attitude in girls who are good looking and people who give too much attention to them. Show her that you do not need her that disperately.
I am sure, if she still likes you she will come back to you and ask why are you behaving like that.
This is just my opinion... And this is what I have learned from my experience.