Hi, to myself I am a man although I have homosexual tendencies. I think and decide like a man. I am strong. The only time I am weak is that when someone is showing me extra kindness and love. I melt and repay it twice or more. I don't want to be a gay. Although I am not afraid to be even people would know since I am already misunderstood on the first place.

I have a lot of friends (guys) who loves me so much. All of them into relationships right now. I am the only one left behind. I want a girl. But I want to be a real man and remove all of these homo tendencies.

Please help me how?

There's nothing unmanly about being gay. If you just try to bury it and pretend like you don't have such tendencies, you're only going to set a foundation for an unhappy life. Try and come to terms with it.

Are you a homosexual?

Trying to be manly is no way to go at it. The media has made it hard on both men and women- making us believe we should be a certain way.

Be comfortable in your own skin and who you are, wouldn't you want someone to love you for that?

Sarah

I like to know what your mean when you wrote " You have homo tendencies"?

If it is due to you being sensitive that is okay. My fiancé has shred tears in front of me and I don't think he is less of a man for showing his softer side.

If you think you might like males or confuse about your sexuality then you need to come to terms with it and sort it out. Even if you need counseling, seek it because you don't want to go through life confused. This will only make you unhappy and guilty with yourself.

To be a man you must be true to yourself!

I know some of the most Manly men who are gay, work out at the gym, six packs and really tough.

The issue here is your opinion and idea that there is some "idea" of what a MAN is.

Are you a virgin or something? Define wanting a woman, and having homosexual tendencies?