I like this girl months a back... months later you get an opportunity to talk to her... she knows you like her and you don't know if she does.I really like her and I don't know when is the right time to let her I want be in a relationship with her?

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Originally Posted by SunSun

....she knows you like her and you dont know if she does.

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If she knows you like her she'll let you know if she's interested.

The best time to start a relationship with someone, is after you talk to them, and learn how they feel. Only by asking can you get an answer.

Sounds like you are skipping a lot of steps. How about talking to her and getting to know her first? If she doesn't know anything about you, how do you expect her to get into a relationship with you?

If she likes you back, you will know it while you are talking to her because she will give you signals.

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List Some things You think as a MALE or FEMALE... would want to talk about on meeting a new person for the first time?

Interests such as:
- Music
- Animals
- Hobbies

There are some topics that can go out of hand or may be best to talk about later like:
-religion
-politics
-family issues [deadbeat dad, drunk mom, etc.]
-past relationships
-personal problems [itchy genitals, stinky feet, etc]

Sarah

Topics to talk about:1. current news events.
2. where were you when historal events happened in our life time.example.9/11.
3. good local places to eat.

Topics avoid.
1.STD's.
2.the weather.
3.your past relationships.

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Originally Posted by redhed35

topics to talk about:1. current news events.
2. where were you when historal events happened in our life time.example.9/11.
3. good local places to eat.

topics avoid.
1.STD's.
2.the weather.
3.your past relationships.

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I'd have to disagree with you on that one. A lot of people get emotional when it comes to 9/11 and some people can be just plain rude and have it unfold into a racist topic [hating the Middle Eastern]. I don't know about you but, I wouldn't like my first conversations with someone to be so emotional.

Sarah

Go with the flow because you can go on a date with a checklist of things to talk about but won't even use it.

Be yourself on the date and be confident.

I guess because I'm so far from america the issues that are around 9/11,are far from here.
I was going for 'where were you when(insert topic) happened?
Or the sunami?

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If your friend asks a lot of question and you don't... the conversation flows good... and you think things would work out if it continue likes that?

What? I'm a little confuse about your question. If you can make it more clearer it would be gladly appreciated.

Also, does this have anything to do with your other thrad because it seems like it does and it's not good to start another thread relating to one you already have open.

No I think issues where people are killed or put into poverty [i.e. Katrina]- is something that shouldn't be ignored but not talked about during a first date. Unless it's like "I'm going to New Orleans to volunteer and help Katrina victims. It's really great I went last month, you should come too".

Sarah

If I was your friend I would be bored of asking all the questions and trying to keep the conversations going.

Sarah

If the conversation is flowing you must be putting some content in there?
Two way communication is always better for a conversation.
Its good to listen,it's a good quality,but for a friendship or relationship to grow both people have to give input.

It's either the person finds it annoying or entertaining. Some people get annoyed but they're not telling you so be just sensitive.

According to studies, women ask question to keep conversation rolling, men do it to get information.

On top of the suggestions above, anything about spur of a moment...

-Say the clothes she's wearing (say it's a trend, a celebrity wears the same, you saw it somewhere, your sister has it too)
-a DVD movie she's carrying (say you've seen it)
-about the person or a thing you saw in the street (say it reminds you of someone)

Best is if you found out something you like in common. Like a hang out area, book, movie, song or an actor and you talk about it whenever you see each other- after this first date.

Be yourself and have fun.

Being fun makes things feel smooth and natural.