Mom won't let me date. I need to wait until college? Should I ask HIM to wait?
Sooo. My mom won't let me date. Period. Its for religious perposes but I don't feel the same way she does. I always find a guy I like and then she ruins it. I had a pretty serious relationship last year. We hid it from my mom for over a year but complications with distance and my mom ultimately broke us up.
I've recently started liking this guy and he likes me too. I like him quite a lot. We were supposed to do something this week but my mom found out and made me stay home. I'm grounded and I have no idea when I will even e able to talk to him.
I'm tired of having to live by what my family says but I don't want to break their hearts by going against them. I've decided that ill stick to her rules while I'm under her roof. But after next year (im a junior this year) when I go off to college I'm living my life how I want to and she can't do anything about it. She knows this. She knows once I hit college I'm gone. I don't want to be my mom enemy I just want to live my life in a way that I am happy.
So back to the guy problem. I know I really really like him. The relationship has so much potential. So what should I do about him. Should I attempt to stay friends in the hopes that when I go to college we'll give it a shot? He's a year older than me and is going to college himself. Should I give up on him? Should I ask him to wait for me? Will he even wait? Is that too selfish of me?
See my dilema? I don't know what to do. I like him a lot.