My girfriend cheated on me a year ago and I just found out! What should I do?
Im with this girl whom I love more than I've ever loved anyone but she keeps on hurting me. She is bipolar with mild skitzophrenia. We have been together since March 23 of last year, but I have been in love with her for two years. First she broke up with her last boyfriend who was treating her like crap and me and her hooked up. She then dumps me 2 weeks later saying that she needs time alone. Then the next day she takes her ex back. This was in 07. Then she goes into a manic phase because she is not taking any meds for her bipolar as her doctor told me, and in the process of her manic phase she goes over some friends of myn's house to take my brother and a friend to the mall. They go to the mall then return to my friend's house. She then has sex with two guys there while my brother is in the room on of the guys my brother slept with the night before, he's gay, therefore he is very upset. I was at work the whole time. When I got off from work I went to my friends house to see them and as I parked I saw her car outside. I then go inside to see what was going on and find her in bed with one of the guys, meanwhile she is still with her ex boyfriend and I am told about the other guy. She chooses to stay with the guy she's in bed with rather than leaving with me to talk. She and her boyfriend fight after that over something and she threatens to commit suicide. He calls the police and they take her to the hospital where she is medicated and monitored. She and her ex brake up while she is in the hospital. She gets out of the hospital and shows me her paperwork that says she was mentally sick and is now cured. I believe it and she asks me out, and I accept. We later on get engaged, but we are still not married to this day. I had to go away for a month, and while I was gone she goes and sees a guy friend of hers and has sex with him one night, then returns and makes out with the guy the next night. I find out about the makeout session right away when I get back by convincing her to tell me. She says nothing else happened and that she didn't mean to cheat on me with him, and I forgive her. But here we are a year later and I just found out that she had sex with the guy the day before the makeout session between them, therefore she has been lying to me about this for a year straight now. She says its because she loves me and was scared of losing me, and she was honest enough to tell me all of this after this long so I'm confused and don't know what to do. Im having trouble trusting her now. She has been clean of cheating for the last year now but I feel that that is only because she has not had the opportunity to do so for the last year since the last incident. Ive been with her everyday since other than when I'm working or going to college for nursing as an RN. What should I do and sorry the story was so long?