OK, I had this boyfriend for about a year and half, and he cheated on me with his ex and had sex with another girl. He said he didn't want his ex at all then I found out that he was talking to her and broke up with him. The next day he went out with her. He told me he was just going to go back with her just to get closure because he cheated on her to a lot and she broke it off but then she ran after him when we started to date. I really don't know how to get over this guy because he still talks to me and tells me he wants me but is still with her. And I can't let go of him because I don't want them to last. And I have still stayed by his side till today and every time I say I'm done he won't believe me. So I need advice on what I should do but will him and his ex last?

Babe, you need to move on.
There are plenty of guys out there that are probably way better than this guy.

Let him go and find someone who won't cheat on you. Your just boosting his ego by hanging about.

He's playing games with you and your allowing it.

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OK, I had this boyfriend for about a year and half, and he cheated on me with his ex and had sex with another girl.

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Now that is a deal breaker. I'm sorry that he was a jerk and a liar. You deserve better.

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he said he didn't want his ex at all then I found out that he was talking to her and broke up with him. The next day he went out with her.

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His words are useless! He contradicted himself. Liar! Liar!

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he told me he was just going to go back with her just to get closure because he cheated on her to a lot

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That's a bunch of BS! Pure bull. I really hope your not buying what he's selling!

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I really don't know how to get over this guy because he still talks to me and tells me he wants me but is still with her.

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This guy is a ding dong. I wish I could say more.

First thing you need to do is NOT talk to him, in fact cut all ties. Take him off your social networking sites, chat messengers, block his number and anything else you can think of. This guy is a liar, a cheater and nothing but scum! Be glad it's over!!

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I can't let go of him because I don't want them to last.

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Darlin' who really gives a rat's arse if they last! You need to wake up! He will do nothing BUT hurt you! Chances are this guy is going to jump from girl to girl- don't be a shirt pocket [where he can do anything to you and your still there!! ]. Be the girl he regrets treating so badly.

Sarah

You leave them both alone, and stop contact with this fellow, because he will cheat on her with YOU, if you let him.

He may change, but you may be to old to care by then.