My husband and I are getting ready to be married 6 years in October. We have always had a great loving relationship, lots of sex, doing kinky things, laughing and just generally having a good time. Lately it seems like the stress of me being out of work, the kids and life in general have dulled our flame to a flicker. I really do love him and want to keep things going like they have always been. Now it seems like things don't come as easily as they used to and we are having to try really hard. Please help!

Sometimes life gets in the way of all the fun, but keep working at it, and make some plans to have some quality time together. That's what grandparents, and babysitters are for.

Date nights are a great way to reconnect just the two of you enjoying each others company without having to worry about anything, if finding a sitter is hard then you could make a specific night where you watch a movie or just do something special together after the kids go to bed.

Definitely sounds like you two need some alone time. Find a babysitter and go enjoy yourselves. You deserve it after so much hard work!