I have been reading on here for the last few days many questions that people have and some very interesting answers, but overall there seemes to be a general trend in the way that people do things- now I'm not trying to put down any individual situation and I am not looking at the reasons that people break up I am just questioning the process that we all seem to go through after break-up, myself included.
I myself am the one that's dumped for what ever reason
Then there is a person that done the dumping, for whatever reason
Now I go through an emotional time, better myself love myself etc etc
Time and space- no contact
The dumper then realises that he/she wants it back
And then I'm assuming that the dumpee in some way goes through similar emotions that the dumped went through and starts the journey of self finding to get over the end rejection
Is this always the case??
If this is always the case why don't we teach this to our children, if we know that this is the routine then surely we would be a little more prepared to deal with it when it does happen,