Guys: What are some of the signs a guy lacks experience with women?

It depends on the situation. If he's a bad kisser it doesn't mean he's inexperienced, if he's a lousy lover it doesn't mean he hasn't been around.

Sarah

What would he be doing wrong.. or not doing at all?

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Originally Posted by charleneD

what would he be doing wrong ..or not doing at all?

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Are you in a situation right now? If so explain, so other ask me helpers and myself would be able to help you a lot more.


Sarah

He is disrespectful and arrogant.
He does not open doors or show civility.
He begins every sentence with *I*,always dominating the conversation.
He thinks in a relationship he is the boss.
He never considers your needs physically,if he has a good time,he thinks you did too.
Lots of red flags to look for.
Experience does not always equal a good match at any time.Experienced guys can be jerks and non experienced guys can be great.The two are not mutually exclusive.

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Originally Posted by artlady

He is disrespectful and arrogant.
He does not open doors or show civility.
He begins every sentence with *I*,always dominating the conversation.
He thinks in a relationship he is the boss.
He never considers your needs physically,if he has a good time,he thinks you did too.
Lots of red flags to look for.
Experience does not always equal a good match at any time.Experienced guys can be jerks and non experienced guys can be great.The two are not mutually exclusive.

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No, I actually do not mean sexually but only at whatever comes before dating :)

Ah gotcha ;)

Well here is a thread about red flags that might help you:
What are some red flags

Sarah

I'm going to post your PM just because I think it would help other ask me helpers understand a little more;

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Hey Sarah,
Thanks for your posts. I was just thinking...

This guy who seems to fancy me seemed to be mad at me the other day and surprisingly, completely ignored me. (I assumed he got mad at me.) The reason was basically because I did not pay much attention to him the previous day. And the reason I did not pay much attention the previous day was because the day before, he stared at me in an aggressive way that made me feel uncomfortable.

SILLY childish GAME---I know! Don't tell me. So unfortunate. This is one of the 'signs' that led me to think he might not have much experience w/ girls.

Do you think I might be right? Btw, we're both in our 20s!
Thanks again!

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Now here's my reply:

You both are in your 20's for him to act like this is childish. You should move on to the next guy, he sounds like he'll just give you mixed signals and will not be a good match.

Sarah

Thank You Sarah for Posting the PM. I think that it had to be posted in order to be able to get the question answered in a more public forum because that is what this website is for. All important information to the question will help get more informed answers from everybody here.

What do you mean by stared at you in an aggressive way? Can you explain a little more. Please feel free to share here, okay. That is why we are all here is to help answer questions to our best ability.

You like each other? It seems like back and forth games. If he is inexperienced then maybe this is your chance to mold him? If you think though that there is any aggression at all, or aggression that could become a problem or anything that makes you feel uncomfortable then it is probably best to move on and let this one go.

Games are for kids so maybe you should go and find a mature guy to be with instead of a child.