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Hey My names Erick ** full name edited out *** and I'm good at getting girls cause I'm hot the other day I had sex with my girl friend. Yesterday she went to the doctor for head ache pills but also found out she's pregnant what the do I do I don't want a kid I'm 21 I don't want a kid. My cousin is having a kid too but he's only 16 but people think he's 18
WHAT DO I DO
Step up and be a man if you are adult enough for sex then you are adult enough for consequences... plain and simple grow up or keep it in your pants
Ok, I will help you,
Since you sound like a player, most liekly you are not much of a man or a good role model for a child anyway.
So just send your child support payments to the child each month ( or week) and when you grow up, then see if you can become part of the child's life.
Number one you stand up and accept that this is your situation as well as your girlfriends
Then you sit down and talk about what you both want to do.
Depending on your age you speak to you parents and reach out to them as parents are usually there for their kids.
You accept the consequences of what you have done and deal with it.
You have no other choice.
You are here and you have a situation you have to deal with.
Where is the conflict?
You have to deal with it.
Talk to your parents,just do it.
You have to do so eventually anyway,sooner is better.
Plan on what you want to say and find the right time and just go for it.
My kids never hesitated to tell me anything. I guess I'm blessed in a way,they tell me too much a lot!
This kid is just playing! Looking for attention like so many others.
They are afraid to say I'm coming here because I feel bad about me or anything like that so they play because they can't admit to wanting to ask a question. Because they KNOW IT ALL.
As long as we keep loving these kids,I know a change is gonna' come,
A modern version with Seal who I adore ,listen :
YouTube - Seal - A change is gonna come 2008
Is this one of the two sisters that you were banging and didn't know which one to take to the Ball?Quote:
Originally Posted by Flame dude
In the unlikely event this is real, you do as the others said. You step up and be a man. You support in whatever decision SHE makes as to what she wants to do about the child. And, if she decides to keep it, then you support the child according to the laws of your state.
Its really very simple; You play, you pay!
Is this even for real?!
I can't imagine a girl would be able to tolerate your immaturity long enough to do anything with you that would result in pregnancy. But, let's say for arguments sake this is on the up and up...
You VERY OBVIOUSLY lack the basic requierments for being a father. So what you need to do is bow out gracefully. You will help this young lady provide for YOUR child. You will also go to a planned parenthood, a doctor, or some other PROFESSIONAL, and inquire about condoms, since, as a mother myself, I can say this world doesn't need you procreating any further. Not until you've discovered that having balls doesn't automatically make you a man.
BTW-What does people thinking your cousin is 18 have to do with anything?:confused:
Looks like you may have got another one :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Flame dude
This is a legal board so you get legal answers.Quote:
Originally Posted by Flame dude
What do you do? Ah, nothing.
If she decides to have the baby you have to support it (along with her) and whether she decides to have the baby is her choice and you have nothing to say about it. End of story.
The people on this board are pretty good at answering questions. So, do you have anything difficult or interesting to ask or just more kindergarten-like questions?
You seem to have a lot of problems having to do with a lot of different girls. The twins, this, that post about your problem at the mall.
Is it the same girl from all the other posts?
Anyway, you have to deal with the consequences. You have to care for the child and talk it out with your girlfriend and your parents too.
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