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  • Apr 11, 2009, 03:51 PM
    SammyBabysWifey
    Is It Possible For A Guy To Be Good In Bed But Suck At Kissing?
    Ok. This Is Totally Random. Im Serious. I Didn't Sleep With the Guy. Because That What half of you Guys Are Going To think Once You Read My Questions.. Ok Just Keep In Mind This is A random Question and I Didn't Sleep With Him. Or Anyone..

    **Ok So Is It Possible For A Guy To Be Good in Bed, But Sucks At Kissing?*
  • Apr 11, 2009, 04:01 PM
    dazzling

    It is possible. Maybe he isn't that experienced.

    But, as a rule, u probably should not sleep with someone who u do not enjoy kissing.
  • Apr 11, 2009, 04:03 PM
    Wondergirl

    How well does he dance?
  • Apr 11, 2009, 04:05 PM
    Alty

    I have to ask. Where did this "totally random" question come from? Obviously something must have sparked it.

    To answer the question. Yes, it's possible.
  • Apr 11, 2009, 04:07 PM
    nikosmom

    It's possible but great kissing will make the bed experience that much better.
  • Apr 11, 2009, 04:24 PM
    Justwantfair

    I don't understand.

    You haven't slept with the guy, he is a bad kisser, so you are wondering if he could be good in bed?

    Do you even have the experience to know if someone is "good in bed"?

    What makes someone "good in bed" is the ability to stimulate their partner and meet their partner's needs. That doesn't require experience, it requires open direction by both parties to what the enjoy. Any partner can be great, if you talk to each other. The only thing that makes a partner ever "bad in bed" is the closed mindedness of not being an attentive partner.
  • Apr 11, 2009, 10:00 PM
    SammyBabysWifey
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How well does he dance?

    Hmm I don't know. I never danced with him. Why does that matter?
  • Apr 11, 2009, 10:12 PM
    none12345

    Well basically the simplest answer is, you can't be good in bed if you suck at kissing period lol
  • Apr 11, 2009, 10:18 PM
    SammyBabysWifey
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by none12345 View Post
    Well basically the simplest answer is, you can't be good in bed if you suck at kissing period lol

    Hmmm... I see
  • Apr 11, 2009, 11:24 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by SammyBabysWifey View Post
    hmm i dunno. i never danced with him. why does that matter?

    Oprah says the two go together. If he's good at one, he'll be good at the other.
  • Apr 11, 2009, 11:28 PM
    starbuck8

    How old are you both? Maybe he just doesn't have lot of experience in kissing. Maybe you could teach him?! That could be fun in itself! It doesn't have to mean he's bad in bed. It's only as good as you want to make it! Then after that, if he's still not any good... well then yeah... I guess find someone who can "kiss" better, and you are into.

    I'm assuming you've kissed him already, and it didn't do much for you? There are vays to make him kiss... ::in my best german accent:: lol!
  • Apr 11, 2009, 11:58 PM
    SammyBabysWifey
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Oprah says the two go together. If he's good at one, he'll be good at the other.

    Wow really. Hmmm something new to try
  • Apr 12, 2009, 12:04 AM
    starbuck8
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by SammyBabysWifey View Post
    well im 18 and his 22.hahah teaching could be fun. lol.... hmm ill have to test that one out..

    All the fun is in the teaching! ;) Have fun with it! Kiss him the way you want to be kissed! He'll catch on! As the song says... "It's not whatcha got, it's whatcha give!"
  • Apr 12, 2009, 12:11 PM
    SammyBabysWifey
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by starbuck8 View Post
    All the fun is in the teaching! ;) Have fun with with it! Kiss him the way you want to be kissed! He'll catch on! As the song says......"It's not whatcha got, it's whatcha give!"

    Hahaha, thanks the advice. I shall try that..

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