Hi I'm beeegurl I love my man , but he's not effectionate enough.I show all the love. I no for sure he is cheating.cant prove it though. How do I deal with this.until I have proof?

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Originally Posted by beegurl

hi im beeegurl i love my man , but hes not effectionate enough.i show all the love. i no for sure he is cheating.cant prove it though. how do i deal with this.until i have proof?

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Forget proof. It's time to let him go and find someone who will love you unconditionally.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Forget proof. It's time to let him go and find someone who will love you unconditionally.

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But love is something. Its funny cause I used to be like him.I was single 4, 7 yrs. Though. He has all the player signs.I just think if I catch him it might change

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Originally Posted by beegurl

but love is somthing. its funny cause i used 2 be like him.i was single 4, 7 yrs. though. he has all the player signs.i just think if i catch him it might change

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Please write in complete sentences, and spell words correctly. If you don't, people will ignore your questions and comments because your words are not understandable. I am having a LOT of trouble figuring out what you are writing.

Catching him won't do a thing. It will only make things worse.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Please write in complete sentences, and spell words correctly. If you don't, people will ignore your questions and comments because your words are not understandable. I am having a LOT of trouble figuring out what you are writing.

Catching him won't do a thing. It will only make things worse.

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Thank you. For the advice.used to texting the kids.new here.but I sound crazy leaving him on suspension

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Originally Posted by beegurl

thank you. for the advice.used to texting the kids.new here.but i sound crazy leaving him on suspension

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Why suspension? You have kids with him? Are you married to him?

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Originally Posted by beegurl https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_i...s/viewpost.gif
but love is somthing. its funny cause i used to be like him.i was single for, 7 yrs. though. He has all the player signs.i just think if i catch him it might change

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Your wasting your time, as players are hard to catch, and you weren't being realistic thinking he would change just because you wanted him to.

I was a player one time back in my day, never got caught.(back in the day was when I was 18 and was emotionally abused by my first "love") I was dating 3 girls in the same class a school near by, all talked to each other and they never had a clue. Finally I broke it off with all three of them because they deserved better.

Bottom line, you won't be able to catch him. Leave him, don't wait for confirmation.

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

I was a player one time back in my day, never got caught.(back in the day was when I was 18 and was emotionally abused by my first "love") I was dating 3 girls in the same class a school near by, all talked to each other and they never had a clue. Finally I broke it off with all three of them because they deserved better.

Bottom line, you won't be able to catch him. Leave him, don't wait for confirmation.

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Thank you for the reply.if I really wanted to catch him I could,I just haven't really tried that hard.I admitt good players its hard to catch,I no I never got caught.but I'm just trying to find a way to accept it a little.I just don't want him to think I'm a fool that he is playing me for. I have a cell spy on his cell.just haven't made up my mind when to put it 2 use yet

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Your wasting your time, as players are hard to catch, and you weren't being realistic thinking he would change just because you wanted him to.

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I'm not trying 2 change him, just want 2 open up his eyes

Its hard to believe your stuck on a guy you don't trust, and whether he knows your on to him, or not, he will just be more careful in the future.

The bad part is, all the time your wasting trying to open his eyes (so he will change his behavior) you could find a guy who doesn't need all that work, and you can be happy with him.

Its your own feelings your not dealing with. So just let him go, and be done with this Tracy stuff.