Wife wants a divorce and says she's in love with another man
My name is "Mac647" and my wife and I have been married for 10 yrs now. The last 6 haven't been the best. She's says she's been unhappy and is done trying. She wants a divorce and has been "talking" to a friend/co-worker. She has told me recently that he has feelings for her and loves her and she said she feels the same for him. She says we are out of chances to fix this and wants to be happy and that's not with me and she has told me that this new guy may be "the one" and that Im not her soulmate. She has known him for about 2 years and has always been good friends with him. He has turned from talking to me to talk to him about everything even our problems. She has cheated in the past and I forgave her for it but never fully trusted her again. She started being funny with her phone, such as hiding it, sleeping with it under her pillow, he has sent her texts that say I love you but supposedly were meant for his wife(who by the way are getting a divorce too) and has asked her out to dinner to "talk". I at this point was living somewhere else due to her asking me to leave due to problems between us. She invited me back but I just found out today that she felt sorry for me but at that time realized she had feelings for the other guy. We are still married today but she has papers and she is already starting to date him and talking about moving in with him. Our 3 kids are my biggest worry cause I don't trust this guy and I think she is moving way too fast. I don't know what to do. Do I let her go or fight to get her back. Im confused.